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Tuesday, July 6, 2010

A Difference of Opinion..Does it Matter?

Today's lesson is about opinions. Do you have one that you like to express? How do you present your opinions? It is an inalienable right to express oneself, so I say go for it! I do, however, feel timing is everything so you should use strong communication skills to voice your opinion. Listen intently, use tact, watch your tone, and do your homework.

A conversation indicates more than one person talking and listening. I work daily on my communication skills. I believe public speaking and communication are the most vital skills in any sales career and maybe in any career! Again, I ask you "How do you present your opinions?" Winning ways are often all in the presentation!

My Dad, the Coach, is used to locker room communication. (LOL) In case you aren't familiar with that kind of talk...it is loud, focused, commanding, and hopefully, inspirational. This type of one way conversation is necessary in this scenario and perhaps in some military operations. I would suspect that these leaders have prepared by discussing their message with assistants and have done their homework completely. Sometimes teams must follow their leaders into battle against all odds.

I think a difference of opinion is healthy in most situations as long as the interaction is honest. And the leader must be prepared to listen and then make the tough calls, if necessary. An open mind is one that learns and expands. So opinions DO MATTER!

From the Coach's Daughter...Learn to communicate and then express yourself appropriately. It will benefit you personally and professionally! See how Elmer does it.

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  1. Would you like to improve your communication skills? High Point Toastmasters Club meets in the Gazebo of the High Point Office every Tuesday at 6:30 pm. CBTR Agents are always welcome to drop in and check out the Toastmasters program. It just might be what you are looking for.

    Adrienne L. Jones

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