My cohorts don't like the term "old". I turn the "big 50" this year and got my AARP letter in the mail a few months ago. Age has never been a big concern for me except when I wanted my drivers license! I say bring on the discounts. LOL
I am not insinuating that any number is old only that with each year that goes by....things change. Now, people call me "maam" and offer me a level of respect that I did not get when I was 25. Now, I admit to more aches, but I could do something about that in the way of daily exercise! Now, I am more comfortable in my own skin than I have ever been. Now, I laugh more at road rage than involve myself in it. Now, I am comfortable by myself. In fact, I require it to keep my sanity. Fortunately, Henry likes his own space as well!
I think I like my age because I have continued to push myself to learn new things. I embrace change because I know it stretches a particular muscle (brain) I need to use. I know you can learn no matter your chronological age, but you must be willing. It is not enough to say it, you must have the courage to do it. Yes, you might fail, but who cares? You are old enough to know better, right?
With age comes wisdom (hopefully), it also affords you the freedom to reach without worrying about what people think.
So Friends, the lesson today from the Coach's Daughter is this...Go for it! Try something new today. Take a new direction to your favorite book store or try something new on the menu! Any "dog" can learn new tricks no matter what their age is.
Friday, August 13, 2010
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
The Tortoise or The Hare?
We all know this story.Depending on your personality, you probably resemble either the tortoise or the hare in life. Some days I am not sure which one makes the most sense so I threw it out to my FaceBook friends the other day. "Small step or big leap?" was all I had to say and I had numerous opinions about the pace of the race.
The different responses filled me with satisfaction since I realized there was not a correct answer only unique opinions. One of my friends said, "It depends." How true! I guess today's post is about patience and acceptance.
What do I mean? I tend to get anxious and impatient when I want to take action. How about you? I work everyday to step back and evaluate without losing the importance of taking action. There are times when you simply must breathe and accept "no answer" yet to whatever question lies in front of you. This does not mean something good isn't taking place. Acceptance leads to serenity.
The Coach has an unwavering faith in God. He relies on it daily in order to maintain a rosy viewpoint of life. Some might say he only sees the good in people and this is not realistic. I, on the other hand, appreciate the beauty and good my Dad sees every day. His acceptance allows this in his life. Now this does not mean he is happy every moment, but he certainly feels at peace in his own skin. It is wonderful to witness.
Today's Lesson from the Coach's Daughter is...Work to be patient without losing your drive and give yourself permission to accept something if you don't feel the timing is right to take action. Meditate about it and I am certain the right answer will become apparent to you. You will then know whether to run the race like the tortoise or the hare!
The different responses filled me with satisfaction since I realized there was not a correct answer only unique opinions. One of my friends said, "It depends." How true! I guess today's post is about patience and acceptance.
What do I mean? I tend to get anxious and impatient when I want to take action. How about you? I work everyday to step back and evaluate without losing the importance of taking action. There are times when you simply must breathe and accept "no answer" yet to whatever question lies in front of you. This does not mean something good isn't taking place. Acceptance leads to serenity.
The Coach has an unwavering faith in God. He relies on it daily in order to maintain a rosy viewpoint of life. Some might say he only sees the good in people and this is not realistic. I, on the other hand, appreciate the beauty and good my Dad sees every day. His acceptance allows this in his life. Now this does not mean he is happy every moment, but he certainly feels at peace in his own skin. It is wonderful to witness.
Today's Lesson from the Coach's Daughter is...Work to be patient without losing your drive and give yourself permission to accept something if you don't feel the timing is right to take action. Meditate about it and I am certain the right answer will become apparent to you. You will then know whether to run the race like the tortoise or the hare!
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